“Getting married” is one of the eight activities MyTongShu publishes for every day, with a 宜, 忌 or neutral entry for each day in the full calendar. Venue, family travel and budget set the shortlist; the almanac is a traditional reference for choosing within it.
How do I choose a good day to hold a wedding?
To choose a good day to hold a wedding, start with your practical limits: venue, family travel and budget. Check each candidate day's 宜 or 忌 entry for getting married and its day verdict. Only today's almanac is free; other days are in the full calendar on the General plan. Reading days against your BaZi chart needs the Personal annual plan.
How to choose
Confirm your practical limits first: venue, family travel and budget.
Open the full calendar and list the days that fall inside those limits.
For each candidate, check its 宜 or 忌 entry for getting married, or whether it is neutral. Only today's almanac is free; other days are in the full calendar on the General plan.
Read the day's overall verdict (吉, 平 or 凶) and its Day Officer as context, not as an instruction.
Use the free preview to see how today reads for you; the Personal annual plan reads each day of your year against your own chart. Then confirm the final day with your practical checks.
What the full calendar shows
Whether each day is 宜, 忌 or neutral for getting married
The day’s overall verdict: 吉, 平 or 凶
Every day of your 12 months, with the days you choose saved to your account
The almanac is the same for everyone. Your BaZi birth chart decides how a day reads for you. See today read for you in 30 seconds; preview details aren’t saved to an account.
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Choosing a day to hold a wedding
How does the Tong Shu treat "Getting married"?
"Getting married" is one of the eight activities MyTongShu publishes for every day, so you can see each day’s 宜, 忌 or neutral entry before you decide when to hold a wedding.
Can I hold a wedding on an inauspicious day?
You can, but a 凶 day verdict is a reason to check your plan more carefully, not a reason to skip your practical checks. Look at the day's 忌 entry for getting married, and ask whether another day inside your limits works better. The final decision is yours.
What if the activity is neutral for a day?
Neutral activity: the almanac neither recommends nor warns against it today. MyTongShu shows a neutral activity as "Neutral" and never treats it as a 宜 entry, so it is never a green light. You can weigh it alongside the day's overall verdict and your own circumstances.
Does a good day guarantee a good outcome?
No. The almanac is a traditional planning reference, not a prediction, and it cannot guarantee any outcome. Practical, legal, safety and professional advice always come first.
How far ahead should I plan?
Start with your real deadlines, such as venue, family travel and budget. Only today's almanac is free; other days are in the full calendar on the General plan, which covers 12 months from the day you join, so you can compare candidate days well ahead of time.
Is the same day good for everyone?
The almanac is the same for everyone. The Personal annual plan reads each day of your year against your own BaZi birth chart, so the same date can read differently for you.
Last reviewed: 31 October 2026
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